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Those who have lost a child through drug misuse often react by trying to cast the horrible experience behind them, picking up the scraps of their lives and just moving on.

Others find the pain so deep that the only answer seems to be sharing their grief with others.

But, those who have not had a similar experience have no real connection to the reality of having a young one of their own die from drugs.

We've found it of great help to have people who have suffered this unique tragedy come together and meet, to share their stories - and their lives - with each other. Those who have traveled a similar path are much more likely to have honest compassion and understanding of each other's circumstances.

Our meetings are intended to be as comfortable and stressless as possible. People may join in and share their experiences with others, or just listen. Some share pictures or letters of their dear departed one.We sit around, share coffee, tea and snacks, and merely try to connect with each other.

Suggestions for help and strength are shared, too. We find, not unexpectedly, that we often have very much in common in our stories. We gain encouragement from each other and learn, above all, that we are not alone.

After meeting, many continue to keep in contact with each other, through email or phone, however they feel most comfortable.

We strongly recommend that you try to set up meetings in your area. We'd be glad to provide information and suggestions on how you might go about getting started.

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NOTE: While our personal tragedy was through our daughter Jennifer, we recognize that any death from substance misuse is devastating to all the survivors.

Because of this, GRASP and our gatherings are not solely devoted to parents, but are also for those who are grieving for a lost parent, spouse, partner, sibling, or close friend.

We're all here to help one another.

For a GRASP chapter near you (click here)